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Find Your Professional Matchmaker in San Diego

Tawkify is the smart choice for singles who are ready to stop searching and start building a real relationship.

Thousands of relationship ready singles in San Diego

Largest network of relationship-ready singles

4.6 stars on Trustpilot

Rated “Excellent” by thousands of Tawkify members

80%+ success rate*

6.5X more effective than dating apps. Dates are 100% guaranteed

*Tawkify relationship success rate for matched couples in first 8–12 matches with Tawkify. Dating app success rate based on Global Love Report by the Pew Research Center.

“Tawkify has matched people with some impressive status, like the lingerie designer and burlesque connoisseur Dita Von Teese.”

“If you wish someone else would do all the hard work for you, Tawkify may be your ideal dating companion.”

“You step into a service like nothing you’ve ever peeped at. And service is the right word — never, on any other dating site, will you ever feel more catered to.”

Dating in San Diego is as laid-back as you’d imagine in a sun-soaked, breezy city. The easygoing beach-town mindset permeates nearly every nook and cranny of this large metro area, from the Point Loma peninsula to the border town of San Ysidro and north to the foothills of San Pasqual Valley.

But an effortless atmosphere isn’t all fun and games when it comes to trying to find quality singles with the shared goal of a long-term partnership. Some relationship-ready singles in San Diego wonder why they’re striking out in the love game. After all, there are near-endless date options (like hiking, brewery hopping, and Padres games just to name a few); a diverse makeup of residents; and political views, religious beliefs, and lifestyles to fit just about anyone’s preferences. So, what gives?

The thing about America’s Finest City is that laid-back often translates to non-committal. While the lack of pressure around labels or exclusivity can be refreshing for some, San Diegans seeking intentional dating experiences often feel like they’re coming up short—that’s why they’re turning to matchmaking teams to find success.

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Tawkify might be the solution to singles’ lack of dating success in San Diego. Tawkify matchmakers are masters in helping you make meaningful connections.

First, they take the time to listen to your needs, the type of person you’re looking for, and other need-to-know details. Then, they start combing through their exclusive network of high-quality singles to pinpoint a match who has a high likelihood of being compatible and sharing chemistry with you. Next comes the exciting first date, fully planned by your dedicated matchmaker to ensure a smooth experience. And all along the way, you receive date coaching and a safe space to provide feedback about the process and your dates.

How does this Tawkify approach help singles in San Diego? Our matchmakers are with you at every step, acting not only as trusted friends and confidants but also as experienced professionals in the romance department. Whether you are stationed here at a military base, a professor at one of the city’s many universities, or an owner of a surf shop in Pacific Beach, the Tawkify matchmaking team can be your trusty sidekicks along your journey to finding love.

Being able to connect with other singles in a matter of minutes is an incredible benefit of dating apps and online dating. These platforms widen the pool of potential matches and give people access to individuals they might not otherwise meet in their day-to-day lives. But it’s no secret that daters everywhere are becoming fed up with the online-first culture. In fact, a recent survey notes that about 70% of users across several generations report feeling burned out by dating apps. They might be making connections, but these often aren’t meaningful.

It’s safe to say that, in many respects, matchmakers are better than dating apps and websites in San Diego. They have a large network of qualified singles (Tawkify has over 1 million!), they’re in the business of making long-lasting connections, and they work tirelessly to find a perfect match so that you don’t have to. And before you start worrying about your lack of control in the matchmaking process, know that with Tawkify, everything is collaborative, from the first interview until your [last] first date.

What sets matchmakers several steps ahead of dating apps and websites is their personal touch and genuine care for finding you the person of your dreams.

When you’re looking for a professional matchmaker in San Diego, you’ll come across a variety of services and costs. It’s not hard to find matchmaking services in the city and surrounding zip codes, like Coronado, Chula Vista, Carlsbad, and beyond, but what tends to be challenging is locating a matchmaking team that offers competitively priced packages.

Thankfully, Tawkify has you covered. Whereas other matchmakers charge anywhere from $10,000 to $50,000 for date packages, ours start at just $4,000—because we believe that all singles in San Diego should be able to have relationship success without breaking the bank.

But affordability doesn’t mean skimping on quality. Our matchmakers are committed to introducing you to your forever person with a proven approach: about 80% of matched clients met their person within their first 12 matches. Investing in your love life is worth it.

How Tawkify Matchmaking Works San Diego

Our proven process for lasting connection (without a single swipe)


Meet a Matchmaker in San Diego

As a client, you’ll be paired with one of our expert matchmakers in San Diego, with access to matches in your area: from across the country.


Tell Them What Makes You Tick

Forget basic dating profiles. Your matchmaker will spend the 1:1 time to really understand you: your values, your ideal partner, your likes and what gives you the ick.


Get Personalized Coaching

87% say that coaching has improved their ability to date successfully and made their matchmaking experience better. All of our client receive coaching as part of their matchmaking service.


Sit Back and Relax

No more swiping. Relax as your team works for you, vetting and video-screening each of your potential matches. Once you are matched, they’ll even plan the date based on your preferences.


Start Meeting Matches in San Diego

After every date, you can provide your matchmaker with feedback on how it went, to ensure you are only meeting people you click with.


Find Your Person

Tawkify is designed to find your perfect partner; you will have access to 1:1 coaching, private events, and premium relationship advice content from the experts. Begin your San Diego love story today!