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Vince Ricco

Vince Ricco

Vince Ricco, a New York City writer with a colorful career as a matchmaker, former theater artist, school principal, and cruise director, crafts engaging articles exploring love, life, and human connections. Drawing inspiration from diverse experiences and fascinating individuals, Vince offers perceptive commentary and invites readers on a journey through the complexities of modern existence and dating, sprinkled with a hint of whimsy. Follow our blog and social media for insightful discussions and entertaining insights into our emotional lives.

Learn what not to talk about on a date for a lasting impression and ensure a smooth, enjoyable conversation.
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What NOT to Talk About on a Date, According to Matchmakers

We’ve recently published a brief guide with suggestions for what you can talk about on a date. Key take-aways from that, in a modern world and with a suitable dating partner, might have led you to understand that the sky is practically the limit. We’re sticking to that, fervently, and adding to it here: with […]

What are the proper expectations to have while dating, if any at all? Crack the code of dating expectations with matchmaker insights!
From the Experts

Dating Expectations: A Guide to Balanced Relationships

There’s a ton of conflicting information out there about what we should expect in our dating endeavors. We’re also not merely grappling with what to expect, but whether we should even have expectations to begin with. In this epoch, caught somewhere between a sea of casual hooking up, a constant barrage of instant communication, and […]

Before you dive headfirst into getting back with an ex, take a step back and ask yourself these six important questions.
A Broken Heart

Getting Back with an Ex? Ask Yourself These Questions First!

Breaking up can be gut-wrenchingly hard, and harder still the longer you’ve been with someone. You may or may not be saying goodbye forever, left to mourn not just the loss of your relationship, but also the time invested and perhaps the future you’d hoped for. Dating after divorce, for example, might feel like pedaling […]

The Future of Dating: From AI Matchmaking to Inclusivity. Explore Changing Gender Roles, Queer Dating, & Virtual Connections.
From the Experts

The Future of Dating: Embracing Technology and Shifting Dynamics

Modern dating has transformed tremendously, with the rise of dating apps revolutionizing the way people meet and connect. As we all become increasingly digitized, dating apps–in contrast to dating services of old which were often regarded with very mixed feelings–have become the go-to resources for folks seeking love and companionship. A lot of these apps […]

Tired of the dating apps and wanting to try something new? The pros and cons of matchmaking vs dating apps. Which is one right for you?
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Matchmaking vs. Dating Apps. Which One Is Right for Me?

Matchmakers at Tawkify are not users of our platform, so from my own experiences and misadventures on dating apps, what I hear from my clients’ and friends’ past experiences, and my own day-to-day professional workflow, I have a relatively objective understanding of the pros and cons of both dating models. In this article, let’s talk […]

The Do's & Don'ts of texting someone new. Matchmaker tips on how to build meaningful connections when dating.
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Do’s and Dont’s of Texting a New Love Interest

Hey you! It’s Vince 🙂  So, you’ve met someone new, and you’re embracing modern tech by getting to know them better through text. The early stages of texting someone new can be thrilling, but they can also feel a bit nerve-wracking. We’ve got you covered with some texting tips about how to help you build […]

Understanding attachment styles in relationships and dating is key to finding a compatible partner. Read our guide to learn more!
From the Experts

Attachment Styles in Relationships & Dating

Matchmakers have a palette of tools and resources that we use to garner insight and perspective before we curate connections. Some matchmakers and clients alike both enjoy and find particular value in ideas like astrology, while others may go a more empirical route, delving into things like personality test results and statistical probability of compatibility […]

Follow these crucial dating safety tips and find peace of mind.
From the Experts

12 Essential Dating Safety Tips for Online Daters

Modern dating in the digital age has made it easier than ever to connect with new people. However, it’s important to prioritize your safety and security when getting to know someone new. Whether you’re chatting virtually or planning to meet in person, these dating safety tips will help you navigate the world of online dating […]

What's the secret to lasting love? Building and maintaining friendship in your romantic relationship is key!
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The Importance of Building Friendship in Relationships

In the realm of romantic relationships, love and attraction often take center stage. However, there is an often-underestimated ingredient that holds equal importance: friendship. Building a strong foundation of friendship, mutual respect, and shared values is essential for long-term relationship success. In this article, we delve into the significance of friendship in romantic relationships and […]

Break free from drinking culture with these unique sober date ideas for sober individuals & dating sober partners.
Date Night

11 Best Sober Date Ideas in 2024

Date nights often involve a bit of drinking. A go-to for a lot of our clients are first dates out for drinks and apps; there’s a bit of so-called “social lubricant,” and it’s less committal than a three course meal. There’s also a question of how much alcohol is appropriate, beckoning questions of first date […]

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