What If I Don’t Want To Date
So when a question came through that didn’t fit the usual pattern, I was perplexed — and after answering it, I felt that it should be shared…
So when a question came through that didn’t fit the usual pattern, I was perplexed — and after answering it, I felt that it should be shared…
Relationships aren’t fun. They’re an inherently not-fun thing you do with someone whom you often have fun with. Just as light is both a particle and a wave, lasting love is a choice as much as it is a feeling…
“Failure is the condiment that makes success taste so good.” –Truman Capote
Capote’s words speak to many aspects of life–but I quote him today as we take a closer look at the art of not knowing in relation to dating and finding love…
Rejection. At some point, we all have to dish it out–and we all have to take it. In matters of the heart, rejection is an even scarier monster. But why are we so afraid…
Q: “My problem is not that I don’t encounter attractive people or individuals that catch my attention. My problem is that I’m shy and I don’t really know how to approach people I don’t know. Any suggestions?”—Katy R.
A 2013 Gallup Poll indicated that while most Americans hoped someday to marry–if they hadn’t already –as many as 25% had no interest in ever doing so, concluding that marriage’s popularity is…
Some people claim to live without regrets…and while that sounds lovely, I’m not sure it also sounds realistic…
Since we’re in the professional matchmaking business, we run into a lot of different people with interesting stories about their past relationships. Something that we try to remind them is it’s one thing to be in a relationship–it’s something else entirely to be in one that is right for them…
Toxic friends. Whether we want to admit it or not, all of us have had at least one. We have covered unhealthy romantic relationships before, but what about unhealthy platonic relationships? What are some of the indicators of an unhealthy friendship? LifeHack recently published a thorough list of indicators…
Since launch in June 2015, Heartalytics has published A LOT of great advice, research and original storytelling. As editor, I felt it would be helpful to our readers to create a monthly snapshot of past content. This isn’t just any past content, of course…
Look to these snapshots for quick, no nonsense tips that get right to the heart of the matter…a dating instruction roundup, if you will.
Enjoy these short, sage snippets of input and encouragement on us…
Sometimes, even the most promising relationships don’t last. Perhaps that spark has begun to fizzle, or maybe you’re just not that compatible as a couple
Even the most seemingly confident men have their insecurities—and that’s totally normal. For instance, maybe your boyfriend is struggling with a recent weight gain or
You see love played out in your favorite books and movies all the time. Characters fall head-over-heels in a matter of minutes, while others speak
Going on a date with a friend can be an exciting risk, but it may also come with the pressure to do it right. If
Ah, dating. Sometimes it gets you out of bed in the morning, and other times it makes you want to hide under your fluffiest blanket
Planning a date night can be equal parts exciting and overwhelming. What if you haven’t had a date in who knows how long and are
Being single on Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be a drag. It could even be—dare I say—celebrated?! The depressed single’s trope has become stale, in
You have probably heard about, talked about, and seen PDA in various situations. But what is it exactly, and how do you navigate the wide