This month, the website, The Good Men Project, featured pieces from two guest writers, Patrick Sallee and Arianna Jeret. Patrick wrote “An Open Letter to the Woman I Want,” and Arianna wrote “An Open Letter to the Man I Want.” Here’s what they’d have to say, if they had the chance…
She once told me it was the sweet innocence of it all that welcomed her in; but in the end, I think it was its wrongness that made her keep fighting long after she should have let go. She enjoyed playing with the complexities of life in that way. You see, even as pups, wolves should never be turned into pets–they just aren’t meant to lead a domesticated life. But when she came across that small creature on her property, barely two weeks old, three pounds, and abandoned–she was a goner. Things changed irrefutably in that instant, for her, and for everyone in her life. I guess that’s why we’re here today…
If you’re reading this, you’re probably looking for comfort and healing. You think you found your person and then you discover that they have betrayed you. Being cheated on can make it feel like the world as you know it has ended, bringing with it a torrential downpour of emotions. It shakes you to your […]
When first dating someone or falling in love, it’s easy to get swept off your feet and ignore some of the not-so-perfect parts of your relationship. But sometimes, those not-so-perfect parts become more significant issues that can transform your relationship into a toxic, manipulative, and even abusive situation. Though they are sometimes difficult to identify […]
While there’s certainly nothing wrong with being single, you may find days when you feel a little down or lonelier than usual. Sometimes, you might need a single anthem encouraging you to wave your single flag high and proud! At other times, you may crave a more thoughtful and inspirational take on your singlehood, reminding […]
Is the man in your life dragging his feet in the relationship department? It’s time to learn about commitment issues and how to navigate them in any relationship. Read on to get helpful context for why some men are afraid of commitment and tips on dealing with this situation in your own romantic life. Why […]
Showing affection, giving gifts, spending time together, and complimenting each other are often considered signs of a happy, healthy relationship. However, there are times when too much of this kind of adoration can signify relationship red flags. And that’s where love bombing comes into the picture. In our guide below, we provide everything you need […]
If you and your partner are considering a break, then you’ve come to the right place. Our guide on taking a break in your relationship is here to offer you advice on navigating this phase. Follow along to learn more about what a break really means, how long a break should last, and what you […]
There’s no way around it: getting over an unrequited love isn’t easy. Letting go of what felt to you like a deep connection—before it became a relationship—is challenging, and you might be finding it hard to know how to cope. You know what to do when you experience a breakup, but what if your friendship […]
When you and your partner first met, the chemistry was palpable. You didn’t just have a spark between you—it felt like a full-on bonfire with no fire extinguisher in sight. However, as the weeks, months, and even years have passed, you might be struggling to find so much as a flicker of light in your […]
Dating as a widow or widower can be an especially tricky situation to navigate. After all, a lot of emotions are at play as you’re trying to find love again while still honoring the memory of your late partner or spouse. It can be challenging to process your grief and give yourself permission to date […]
You’ve probably heard about the concept of self-sabotage when it comes to things like landing a job or achieving your goals. You know, when you let yourself get in the way of your own success? Well, you might be surprised that self-sabotage can actually apply to your romantic relationships, too. You can inadvertently destroy or […]
