Ah, the elusive second date. You’ve made it through the first. It was most likely dinner…or a few cocktails sprinkled in with light conversation. Now you’re wondering–will there be a second? And if so, do I even want to go?
Sometimes chemistry is immediate–a jolt, then a rushing. It overpowers you and leaves you jittering with excitement. Other times, first date chemistry is more of a slow build which doesn’t necessarily mean it wasn’t there. It’s just more… tame. You enjoyed yourself, but don’t feel as though you might soar over the moon. Does this mean a second date isn’t in order? Absolutely not!
If the “to second date or not to second date” enigma has you flummoxed, the following questions might help…