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There’s a particular kind of tired that comes from realizing you’ve spent hours on dating apps and haven’t actually made a date. You’ve checked messages, figured out who seems serious, answered the same opening questions, tried to make plans, moved plans around, and maybe started over with someone new. At some point, dating can start […]
There’s a particular kind of tired that comes from realizing you’ve spent hours on dating apps and haven’t actually made a date. You’ve checked messages, figured out who seems serious, answered the same opening questions, tried to make plans, moved plans around, and maybe started over with someone new. At some point, dating can start […]
It only takes a few minutes. We spend a lot of time figuring out what we want in someone else. Kind. Funny. Smart. Attractive. Successful. Active. Emotionally available. Most of us can make that list pretty quickly. The harder question is: What is it actually like to be in a relationship with you? Your LinkedIn […]
You meet someone, the conversation is good, they seem interested, maybe you even make plans. Then they disappear. If this keeps happening, it’s easy to wonder, “Why do people keep ghosting me?” Curious what you may be noticing early in dating, and what you might be missing? 1. They Say They Want to See You […]
Dating advice from family can be unsolicited, awkward, or surprisingly useful, especially when it crosses generations. We surveyed 757 adults ages 18 to 65 with a single parent or grandparent, along with 257 single adults ages 54 to 79 who were dating or open to dating, to explore how younger relatives were getting involved in […]
A client I’ll call Dana came to me after a year spent working with two matchmaking services at the same time: Tawkify and Selective Search. She had the income to try both, the patience to see them through, and, by the end, a clear sense of what each one got right and what each got […]
After a marriage falls apart, most divorced adults come back to dating with a clearer picture of what they want and far less patience for what they don’t. Among divorced adults, 93% said they raised their standards in at least one area after their split. Tawkify surveyed 827 divorced adults in their 40s, 50s, and […]
Re-entering the dating world after 40 can feel like showing up to a game where the rules changed while you were gone. Maybe a divorce put you here. Maybe you spent your 30s on your kids and your career and looked up to find a dating scene you don’t recognize. The dating apps are new, […]
Finding companionship later in life looks different from what it did decades ago, and today’s dating services for seniors reflect that shift. Many platforms now focus on shared values and lifestyle compatibility, rather than fast swiping or casual matches. The result is a growing range of services designed for people over 50 who want meaningful […]
Home doesn’t feel the same after a long marriage ends. The place is yours again, and it’s both freeing and a little weird. Friends check in for a minute, then life settles back into its usual rhythm, and the question pops up: do I even want to start dating again, and if so, how? Dating […]
You meet someone, the conversation is good, they seem interested, maybe you even make plans. Then they disappear. If this keeps happening, it’s easy to wonder, “Why do people keep ghosting me?” Curious what you may be noticing early in dating, and what you might be missing? 1. They Say They Want to See You […]
Dating advice from family can be unsolicited, awkward, or surprisingly useful, especially when it crosses generations. We surveyed 757 adults ages 18 to 65 with a single parent or grandparent, along with 257 single adults ages 54 to 79 who were dating or open to dating, to explore how younger relatives were getting involved in […]
Dating used to be slower. Not necessarily better. Just slower.You met someone through a friend, at work, at a party, through school, in your neighborhood, or because somebody knew somebody. You usually had a little context before the first date. Now we can meet more people than ever before, which is a great thing. We […]
It only takes a few minutes. We spend a lot of time figuring out what we want in someone else. Kind. Funny. Smart. Attractive. Successful. Active. Emotionally available. Most of us can make that list pretty quickly. The harder question is: What is it actually like to be in a relationship with you? Your LinkedIn […]
Dating advice from family can be unsolicited, awkward, or surprisingly useful, especially when it crosses generations. We surveyed 757 adults ages 18 to 65 with a single parent or grandparent, along with 257 single adults ages 54 to 79 who were dating or open to dating, to explore how younger relatives were getting involved in […]
A client I’ll call Dana came to me after a year spent working with two matchmaking services at the same time: Tawkify and Selective Search. She had the income to try both, the patience to see them through, and, by the end, a clear sense of what each one got right and what each got […]
It only takes a few minutes. We spend a lot of time figuring out what we want in someone else. Kind. Funny. Smart. Attractive. Successful. Active. Emotionally available. Most of us can make that list pretty quickly. The harder question is: What is it actually like to be in a relationship with you? Your LinkedIn […]
You meet someone, the conversation is good, they seem interested, maybe you even make plans. Then they disappear. If this keeps happening, it’s easy to wonder, “Why do people keep ghosting me?” Curious what you may be noticing early in dating, and what you might be missing? 1. They Say They Want to See You […]
You meet someone and feel a strong pull toward them. You want to see them again. You think about them afterward. You are curious about where it could go. That matters. It just does not tell you everything. Chemistry tells you that you are drawn to someone. Compatibility tells you whether the two of you […]
Dating in Boston? The right space makes first-date conversation easy; the wrong one makes even a great match feel like a long night. The setting sets the mood, so here are the Boston restaurants I recommend for a first date, in three neighborhoods, picked for what works on a first date: a place to just […]
You sit down across from your date and the 3 W’s of small talk begins: work, weather, and weekend plans. Those safe topics are fine for breaking the ice, but they don’t tell you whether the person in front of you will sync with your life, priorities, or emotional style. After a long marriage, a […]
Living in the Bay Area means that you’re constantly surrounded by incredible activities, food, and more. Even with all these options, for those dating or in relationships, sometimes it’s nice to have a little help in the date-ideas department. That’s why we’ve put together this comprehensive list of the 30 best date ideas in the […]
There’s a particular kind of tired that comes from realizing you’ve spent hours on dating apps and haven’t actually made a date. You’ve checked messages, figured out who seems serious, answered the same opening questions, tried to make plans, moved plans around, and maybe started over with someone new. At some point, dating can start […]
It only takes a few minutes. We spend a lot of time figuring out what we want in someone else. Kind. Funny. Smart. Attractive. Successful. Active. Emotionally available. Most of us can make that list pretty quickly. The harder question is: What is it actually like to be in a relationship with you? Your LinkedIn […]
You meet someone, the conversation is good, they seem interested, maybe you even make plans. Then they disappear. If this keeps happening, it’s easy to wonder, “Why do people keep ghosting me?” Curious what you may be noticing early in dating, and what you might be missing? 1. They Say They Want to See You […]
The holidays have a way of magnifying whatever we’re feeling. Joy feels brighter, stress feels heavier, and relationship doubts can echo a little louder. For many, this season becomes a time of “holding on,” even when the heart is already halfway out the door. Tawkify asked 1,000 Americans about the quiet, complicated topic of why […]
As the name would suggest, one-sided relationships often skew to the wants, needs, and, ultimately, the will power of one in a two-person relationship. Sustainable for a time, eventually the regular expectation of accommodating to another’s needs, in the absence of reciprocity, wears on the more giving partner. Meanwhile, the taker in the relationship grows […]
What is a Codependent Relationship? Understanding Codependency Despite what its name would suggest, codependency is defined as a one-sided, warped, and compensatory style of relationship, in which a person who lacks a firm identity leans on another for support. Because codependent symptomology develops gradually, it’s possible to slip into a codependent dynamic over time, after […]
The Bible is an inexhaustible source of wisdom, especially when it comes to relationships. Rooted in God’s Word, its teachings on love, loyalty, and forgiveness speak to every stage of human connection. Whether you’re building a romantic partnership, strengthening a friendship, or pursuing personal growth, Scripture reminds us that love covers many faults, and good […]
Because there are so many different sects of Christianity and degrees to which Christians practice the faith, the subject of dating as a Christian can bring up a lot of questions. For example, how do you find a partner who shares your beliefs? How do you remain true to your faith while searching for a […]
You meet someone new, exchange numbers, and then the conversation starts. This is how modern meet-cutes happen, whether you first connect through a dating app, over social media, through a friend, or during a night out on the town. Swapping numbers with someone you’re interested in is a great way to get the ball rolling, […]
There’s a particular kind of tired that comes from realizing you’ve spent hours on dating apps and haven’t actually made a date. You’ve checked messages, figured out who seems serious, answered the same opening questions, tried to make plans, moved plans around, and maybe started over with someone new. At some point, dating can start […]
It only takes a few minutes. We spend a lot of time figuring out what we want in someone else. Kind. Funny. Smart. Attractive. Successful. Active. Emotionally available. Most of us can make that list pretty quickly. The harder question is: What is it actually like to be in a relationship with you? Your LinkedIn […]
You meet someone, the conversation is good, they seem interested, maybe you even make plans. Then they disappear. If this keeps happening, it’s easy to wonder, “Why do people keep ghosting me?” Curious what you may be noticing early in dating, and what you might be missing? 1. They Say They Want to See You […]
Dating advice from family can be unsolicited, awkward, or surprisingly useful, especially when it crosses generations. We surveyed 757 adults ages 18 to 65 with a single parent or grandparent, along with 257 single adults ages 54 to 79 who were dating or open to dating, to explore how younger relatives were getting involved in […]
A client I’ll call Dana came to me after a year spent working with two matchmaking services at the same time: Tawkify and Selective Search. She had the income to try both, the patience to see them through, and, by the end, a clear sense of what each one got right and what each got […]
After a marriage falls apart, most divorced adults come back to dating with a clearer picture of what they want and far less patience for what they don’t. Among divorced adults, 93% said they raised their standards in at least one area after their split. Tawkify surveyed 827 divorced adults in their 40s, 50s, and […]
Dating used to be slower. Not necessarily better. Just slower.You met someone through a friend, at work, at a party, through school, in your neighborhood, or because somebody knew somebody. You usually had a little context before the first date. Now we can meet more people than ever before, which is a great thing. We […]
The CEO Who Outsourced Everything Except Finding His Wife: Inside Executive Matchmaking I have a client I’ll call David. He’s 58, a partner at a private equity firm, and he outsources almost everything. His assistant runs his calendar. A service handles his dry cleaning. His accountant manages his taxes, and a travel team books the […]
Atlanta singles often build their social lives around their neighborhoods, but staying in that familiar radius can limit genuine connections. As a matchmaker, I care about geography, but I care about compatibility more. That’s why I might plan a Buckhead client’s first date in Brookhaven instead. This type of intentional matchmaking is catching on: our […]
You meet someone and feel a strong pull toward them. You want to see them again. You think about them afterward. You are curious about where it could go. That matters. It just does not tell you everything. Chemistry tells you that you are drawn to someone. Compatibility tells you whether the two of you […]
Many of the Chicago singles I work with are accomplished professionals with full calendars, strong social circles, and a clear desire for meaningful relationships. What they don’t have is much patience left for dating apps, endless swiping, or online dating that turns finding a partner into another task on the to-do list. That’s where working […]
Wanting a relationship and actually having room for one are not always the same thing. You can genuinely want to meet someone and still have parts of your life, your past, or your expectations getting in the way. That is not a reason to stop dating. It is a reason to get clear. How Ready […]