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Not sure where to go for your next date in the Garden State? Check out our guide to the top date ideas in NJ!
Date Night

30 Best Date Ideas in New Jersey

If you’re dating in New Jersey, you’re in luck because there are so many amazing date ideas in this part of the country. From hiking to waterfalls to sipping on tiki drinks, you’ll find countless ways to spend time with your partner or crush in NJ.  Whether you’re looking for some romantic NJ date night […]

Dating Methods

Explore various dating methods and strategies to find the approach that works best for you. See all

Explore the best dating apps for introverts in 2024. Read our honest reviews to find the perfect platform for meaningful connections and lasting relationships tailored for introverted individuals.
Dating Methods

The Best Dating Apps for Introverts

Singles who consider themselves more reserved might wonder if online dating is the right choice for the dating journey. If you’re curious about introvert-friendly dating apps, you’re in the right place.  Follow along as we cover what makes a great dating app for introverts, the top apps and sites, and features to look for to […]

Discover the best dating apps and sites for individuals in their 30s in 2024. Read our honest reviews to find the perfect platform for meaningful connections and lasting relationships.
Dating Methods

Best Dating Apps, Sites for 30s: Honest Reviews

If you’re in your 30s and looking for love, don’t get lost in the sea of dating apps and sites. Instead, use this guide to learn about the best online dating platforms for your stage in life, where balancing professional priorities and shifting relationship goals can be tricky to navigate.  Here, we review paid and […]

Dating Methods

Best Dating Apps and Sites for Chicago: Honest Reviews

Looking for Love in the Windy City? We’ve Rounded Up the Best Online Dating Options There are a lot of things to love about a city like Chicago, but its dating scene might not be one of them. If you’re having trouble finding love in the Second City, you may want to consider online dating.  […]

From the Experts

Insights, advice, and tips from dating experts, coaches, and matchmakers. See all

Gay dating advice: a guide on finding love, navigating differences, and building connections.
From the Experts

Dating as a Gay Man – Advice from a Matchmaker

While I’m happy to work for people of all walks of life here at Tawkify, I spent the very first few years concentrating exclusively on matching gay men. I’ve worked for gay men of every shape, color, age, and net worth across the US, and I’ve learned a lot. I’ve observed trends in thought and […]

Explore the age gap dynamics, potential advantages and challenges that arise when dating someone younger than you.
From the Experts

The Pros & Cons of Dating Someone Younger than You – Asked & Answered

In the realm of relationships, age has long been a topic of interest and discussion. As society evolves, so do the dynamics and reality of modern dating, leading to more open-mindedness when it comes to age disparities. However, it’s important to consider the potential advantages and challenges that arise when dating someone younger than you. […]

Learn why people delay breaking up until after Christmas and the holiday season.
A Broken Heart

The Holiday Hold-On: Why People Delay Breakups Until After the Holidays

The holidays have a way of magnifying whatever we’re feeling. Joy feels brighter, stress feels heavier, and relationship doubts can echo a little louder. For many, this season becomes a time of “holding on,” even when the heart is already halfway out the door. Tawkify asked 1,000 Americans about the quiet, complicated topic of why […]

Late Start

Advice and encouragement for those who are starting to date later in life, after a long-term relationship or divorce. See all

Trends

Tips to help you navigate dating during major holidays or seasonal changes. See all

Trends

Upcoming: National Singles Week

Romance is exalted in every corner of the globe, but to create a sense of equality, promotion of National Singles Week (observed during the third full week of September) began in Ohio in the 1980s to celebrate societal contributions made by singles…

Trends

The Art & Science of Love Delivery, a Q&A

Last week, I sat down with Julia Armet – Tawkify’s magnetic Director of Operations. She was one of our first matchmakers upon the company’s founding. She is fun, sharp, and a wiz at her job! Heartalytics readers, meet Jules… 

Start Dating

Tips and resources for those who are new to dating or looking to get back into the dating scene. See all

Apprehensive about how to approach a woman respectfully? We offer the best tips on how to approach women in public and what to say to them.
Start Dating

How to Approach Women with Confidence and Respect

Approaching a stranger in public can be nerve-wracking, but approaching a girl you’re interested in? Now, that can really rattle your nerves!  Maybe you’re wondering how to approach a girl and not be creepy. Or perhaps you’re unsure of how to start a conversation with a girl you just met. Well, you’re not alone. Having […]

If you’ve had a successful first date and are wondering how long to wait for a second date, keep reading! We offer tips on timing, communication after the first date, and more.
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Timing Is Everything: How Long Should You Wait for a Second Date?

Wondering how long to wait for a second date? You’re not alone. Daters everywhere have the same question. Thankfully, we have answers! But don’t worry—we’re not going to throw a bunch of rules at you. After all, modern dating is all about following your heart while respecting other people’s boundaries and preferences. Translation: every person […]

Are you wondering how to know if a guy is serious about you? Follow our guide for nine signs he sees you long-term.
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9 Signs a Guy Is Serious About You

In the modern dating world, we often hear about a couple “getting serious,” but what exactly does that mean? Getting serious tends to refer to when you’re exclusively with someone with the intention of dating long-term or getting married. When a guy is serious about you, he’s usually over casual dating and ready to settle […]

Compatibility

Discussions about the importance of compatibility in relationships and how to find a partner who shares your values and interests. See all

How did your date go? Our guide covers the signs of chemistry on a first date so you’ll know if the connection was real.
Compatibility

10 Signs of Chemistry After a First Date (& What They Mean)

Everyone wants signs of chemistry on a first date. But do you know what they actually mean or how to pinpoint them?  Romantic chemistry is a widely used term that isn’t quite definable. Our only definition is “you know it when you have it.” It gives you that gut feeling when you’re on a date […]

Learn the FLR meaning and how female led relationships work.
Compatibility

Female-Led Relationships: Understanding the Dynamics and Benefits

Curious about what the “FLR” meaning is? As more couples pursue alternatives to traditional, gender-based relationship dynamics, they might seek a structure like an FLR, or female-led relationship, where the woman assumes the leading role and her partner supports it.  Are you curious about how these relationships work and if the FLR relationship structure is […]

Compatibility

The Truth Behind Mis-Matched Couples

While there are all kinds of variations within partners, mixed-attractiveness couples do go somewhat against the grain. We’re often cautioned that real beauty is found within, but good looks are among the more highly rated characteristics in what people say they want in a romantic partner. And in general, couples tend to be more similar in many respects…

Date Night

Ideas and inspiration for planning memorable and romantic dates in your city. See all

Not sure where to go for your next date in the Garden State? Check out our guide to the top date ideas in NJ!
Date Night

30 Best Date Ideas in New Jersey

If you’re dating in New Jersey, you’re in luck because there are so many amazing date ideas in this part of the country. From hiking to waterfalls to sipping on tiki drinks, you’ll find countless ways to spend time with your partner or crush in NJ.  Whether you’re looking for some romantic NJ date night […]

Date Night

Dating Instruction Roundup XII

John asked: “Am I just too ugly to get a date?” While brief, I think we can all relate to John’s self-doubt and frustration on some level — or at some point in our lives (awkward pre-teen years anybody?)…

Dating

Articles and stories about the ups and downs of dating, from first dates to long-term relationships. See all

If you’re in a situationship, you might be wondering when to define the relationship. Find out everything you need to know about the DTR talk.
Dating

The DTR Talk: How and When to Define the Relationship

The early stages of a blossoming relationship can be fun, flirty, and, let’s face it, a little confusing. After all, you’re having a blast spending time together and doing the things couples do, but you haven’t exactly put a label on your relationship. In other words, you’ve landed yourself in a situationship. A situationship is […]

The first sign a guy is serious about you: He Makes You a Priority
Dating

Tawkify vs. It’s Just Lunch (2025 Review): Which Matchmaking Service Is Best for You?

If you’re tired of swiping through endless dating profiles and ready to invest in a more personalized approach to finding love, professional matchmaking might be your answer. But with several options available, how do you choose the right service? In this comprehensive comparison, we’re examining two popular matchmaking companies: Tawkify and It’s Just Lunch (IJL). […]

The truth about dating a shorter man. See if dating a shorter guy is right for you with our pros and cons list.
Dating

Pros & Cons of Dating a Shorter Man – Understand it All

When it comes to the dating world, short guys often get, well, the short end of the stick. There’s a lot of stigma around dating shorter men, but it’s not all rooted in fact. Sure, some short guys lack confidence or fixate on their height, but there are actually a lot of benefits to dating […]

A Broken Heart

Support and guidance for those going through a breakup or healing from heartache. See all

Learn why people delay breaking up until after Christmas and the holiday season.
A Broken Heart

The Holiday Hold-On: Why People Delay Breakups Until After the Holidays

The holidays have a way of magnifying whatever we’re feeling. Joy feels brighter, stress feels heavier, and relationship doubts can echo a little louder. For many, this season becomes a time of “holding on,” even when the heart is already halfway out the door. Tawkify asked 1,000 Americans about the quiet, complicated topic of why […]

If you’re in between relationships, it’s time to feel single and proud! Check out our list of our favorite quotes about being single for inspiration.
A Broken Heart

50 Best Single Life Quotes | Celebrate Your Singlehood!

While there’s certainly nothing wrong with being single, you may find days when you feel a little down or lonelier than usual. Sometimes, you might need a single anthem encouraging you to wave your single flag high and proud! At other times, you may crave a more thoughtful and inspirational take on your singlehood, reminding […]

A Broken Heart

Is It Right Or Is It Wrong?

Since we’re in the professional matchmaking business, we run into a lot of different people with interesting stories about their past relationships. Something that we try to remind them is it’s one thing to be in a relationship–it’s something else entirely to be in one that is right for them…

Religion

Discussions about the intersection of faith and dating, and how religious beliefs can impact relationships. See all

Religion

Dating Industry Broadcast IV

After Donald Trump was elected president, Maple Match, an online dating app which connects Canadians and Americans, was inundated with people signing up. The app promised to make it easy for Americans to find a Canadian partner to save them…

Compatibility

The Truth Behind Mis-Matched Couples

While there are all kinds of variations within partners, mixed-attractiveness couples do go somewhat against the grain. We’re often cautioned that real beauty is found within, but good looks are among the more highly rated characteristics in what people say they want in a romantic partner. And in general, couples tend to be more similar in many respects…

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Not sure where to go for your next date in the Garden State? Check out our guide to the top date ideas in NJ!
Date Night

30 Best Date Ideas in New Jersey

If you’re dating in New Jersey, you’re in luck because there are so many amazing date ideas in this part of the country. From hiking to waterfalls to sipping on tiki drinks, you’ll find countless ways to spend time with your partner or crush in NJ.  Whether you’re looking for some romantic NJ date night […]

Explore the best dating apps for introverts in 2024. Read our honest reviews to find the perfect platform for meaningful connections and lasting relationships tailored for introverted individuals.
Dating Methods

The Best Dating Apps for Introverts

Singles who consider themselves more reserved might wonder if online dating is the right choice for the dating journey. If you’re curious about introvert-friendly dating apps, you’re in the right place.  Follow along as we cover what makes a great dating app for introverts, the top apps and sites, and features to look for to […]

Discover the best dating apps and sites for individuals in their 30s in 2024. Read our honest reviews to find the perfect platform for meaningful connections and lasting relationships.
Dating Methods

Best Dating Apps, Sites for 30s: Honest Reviews

If you’re in your 30s and looking for love, don’t get lost in the sea of dating apps and sites. Instead, use this guide to learn about the best online dating platforms for your stage in life, where balancing professional priorities and shifting relationship goals can be tricky to navigate.  Here, we review paid and […]

Dating Methods

Best Dating Apps and Sites for Chicago: Honest Reviews

Looking for Love in the Windy City? We’ve Rounded Up the Best Online Dating Options There are a lot of things to love about a city like Chicago, but its dating scene might not be one of them. If you’re having trouble finding love in the Second City, you may want to consider online dating.  […]

Learn how to delete your OkCupid account in 2024 with our no-nonsense guide. Protect your privacy and explore better dating alternatives.
Dating Methods

How to Delete OkCupid Account: No-Nonsense Guide

Cupid Not Pulling His Weight? Use This No-Nonsense Guide to (Permanent) Deletion of Your OkCupid Account and Profile OkCupid is a free, popular dating app that has a great many users. But it’s not for everybody. Indeed, OkCupid is widely considered to be best suited for hookups or casual dating.  Whatever the case may be, […]

Learn how to delete your eHarmony account in 2024 with our no-nonsense guide. Protect your privacy and explore better dating alternatives.
Dating Methods

How to Delete eHarmony Account: No-Nonsense Guide

eHarmony Not Working For You? Learn How To (Permanently) Delete Your Account and Profile eHarmony is a popular dating app that finds you matches using an algorithm. In this regard it differs from other dating apps – like Match.com, for example – that allow you to proactively search for matches.   eHarmony is not for everybody, […]

Discover the best Jewish dating apps and sites in 2024. Read our honest reviews to find the perfect platform for meaningful connections and lasting relationships within the Jewish community.
Dating Methods

Best Jewish Dating Apps, Sites: Pros, Cons, Costs

Best Jewish Dating Apps, Sites: Honest Reviews If you’re a Jewish single navigating the dating scene without much luck, maybe you just haven’t found the right dating platform yet. After all, finding the person who makes your heart sing—and fits your religious or cultural preferences—can be challenging. But with the best app or site at […]

Gay dating advice: a guide on finding love, navigating differences, and building connections.
From the Experts

Dating as a Gay Man – Advice from a Matchmaker

While I’m happy to work for people of all walks of life here at Tawkify, I spent the very first few years concentrating exclusively on matching gay men. I’ve worked for gay men of every shape, color, age, and net worth across the US, and I’ve learned a lot. I’ve observed trends in thought and […]

Explore the safety of using Tinder in 2024. Read our comprehensive analysis of the latest data and learn how to protect yourself while using this popular dating app.
Dating Methods

Is Tinder Safe: A Look at the Data

Worried About Your Safety on Tinder? Understand The Risks and Learn How to Stay Safe If you’re interested in dating apps, you’re probably considering Tinder. After all, Tinder is one of the most widely downloaded and used dating apps in the world. But any time you dive into the world of online dating, you’ll want […]

Apprehensive about how to approach a woman respectfully? We offer the best tips on how to approach women in public and what to say to them.
Start Dating

How to Approach Women with Confidence and Respect

Approaching a stranger in public can be nerve-wracking, but approaching a girl you’re interested in? Now, that can really rattle your nerves!  Maybe you’re wondering how to approach a girl and not be creepy. Or perhaps you’re unsure of how to start a conversation with a girl you just met. Well, you’re not alone. Having […]

How did your date go? Our guide covers the signs of chemistry on a first date so you’ll know if the connection was real.
Compatibility

10 Signs of Chemistry After a First Date (& What They Mean)

Everyone wants signs of chemistry on a first date. But do you know what they actually mean or how to pinpoint them?  Romantic chemistry is a widely used term that isn’t quite definable. Our only definition is “you know it when you have it.” It gives you that gut feeling when you’re on a date […]

If you’re in a situationship, you might be wondering when to define the relationship. Find out everything you need to know about the DTR talk.
Dating

The DTR Talk: How and When to Define the Relationship

The early stages of a blossoming relationship can be fun, flirty, and, let’s face it, a little confusing. After all, you’re having a blast spending time together and doing the things couples do, but you haven’t exactly put a label on your relationship. In other words, you’ve landed yourself in a situationship. A situationship is […]

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